Impulsive acts can have long-term consequences
“Sexting” — taking nude or semi-nude photos and sending them between cell phones or other networked devices — is a modern trend that can have serious consequences. Once sent, images may be forwarded from phone to phone or posted on the internet, and can never be reeled back in. The fallout can include social, school, and even legal consequences.
You can help protect your kids by talking to them about appropriate and inappropriate behavior when sending text messages and using the internet. It’s important for you to know what is appropriate for your child to view or send by computer or cell phone. Some families also establish a “walk-up” rule, where parents or guardians can walk up at any time and see what is on the screen of their child’s phone or computer. In short:
• Don’t snap it: The best way to avoid legal and social risks is to just not take a sexually explicit photo in the first place.
• Don’t send it: Once a picture is snapped and sent, it is out of the sender’s control, even if it was sent only to a trusted friend. The recipient may send it on to others, or a friend or family member may intercept the message.
• Don’t share it: Forwarding an embarrassing photo of a friend or classmate isn’t just socially cruel — it may be cyberbullying. If it’s a sexually explicit photograph of a minor, it may be criminal.
Most importantly, keep the dialogue open. If your child knows you are concerned, they’re more likely to think twice before taking or forwarding a risqué photograph that could be illegal.
To learn more about the potential risks of sexting and some precautions families can take, please click below to view a letter to parents and guardians from Lane County District Attorney Alex Gardner and Eugene School District Superintendent George Russell.
