• Middle school is a time of great growth for young people. The typical middle school-aged child will exhibit behaviors that may concern their parents but are completely normal:

    Normal Adolescent Behavior:

    • Testing rules and limits,
    • Touchy when asked too many questions
    • Moody at times
    • Easily embarrassed
    • Amplified emotions and reactions
    • Moving away from a family orientation - More concerned with the opinions of, and relationship with, their peers.

    The following are behaviors that are not typical for most middle school aged children. If your child is exhibiting any of these behaviors, it may be a sign that they are emotionally at risk.

    Behaviors of Concern:

    • Ongoing anxiety and persistent sadness
    • Sudden drop in school performance
    • Frequent problems with authority
    • Chronic indecision and lack of concentration
    • Overreaction to criticism
    • Frequent physical complaints

    Middle school students need to have a variety of protective factors in their life to help them moderate their emotions and cope with stress. Consider whether your child has these factors present in their life:

    Common Protective Factors for Healthy Youth:

    Individual:

    • Physical and mental health
    • Willingness to seek help
    • Problem Solving Skills Self-soothing and coping skills
    • Self-esteem and self worth
    • Risk avoidance

    Family:

    • Supportive adults
    • Safe and stable home environment
    • Home responsibilities
    • Strong family connections
    • Family support of their identity
    • Reasonable expectations

    Community:

    • Adequate access to health and mental health care
    • Safe spaces
    • Opportunities for youth to contribute
    • Sense of belonging
    • Cultural Identification