The age old question, is Chivalry dead? The modern version of Chivalry is known as being polite and courteous and an overall good person. A Chivalrous person holds the door for others, has good manners and is selfless to everyone they meet. While they also consistently show respect for others by putting their needs before their own. This term is primarily used for how men treat women anywhere and everywhere. While some believe that Chivalry is dead others believe it is alive and well.